Tuesday, October 26, 2010
Year Two, Letter Nine
but i think that just has something to do with the amount that we
walk. at least that makes a little sense. just one more week ya know?
scripture! Mosiah 4: 26 - 30
family reunion! it looks like you guys really did an amazing job for
the family reunion. i love how that family reunion banner was
perfectly measured and it just looked perfect on that wall. i mean
oviously i wouldn´t expect anything else. it is just so typical of you
guys. :) but i am kinda jealous. i saw that picture with Dad, Mom,
Morgan, Stuart, Blake, Lauren, and Jackson. I was kinda sad to not be
there. haha but what can ya do? but i am glad that it was a success
and that you guys had fun. and i am sad that i am the only member of
the family who hasn´t even said "hi" to jackson.
morgan, your hand infection makes me laugh. a tiny bit. who gets hand
infections for washing their hands too much? you deserve a high five.
that is spectacular that my first nephew is well-behaved. i can give
him a high five, too. but he needs to do more stuff...other than eat,
sleep, and poop. but i loved the pictures. he looked hilarious in a
couple pics. is stuart able to deal with the job, the school, and the
baby all at the same time? that requires talent.
the Marília investigators are spectacular. i love that they are strong
members of the church now :) i am going to write a letter to cassia
and renato and carol and bia.
we had another meeting at 7:30 AM on sunday with pres. mario. he
didn´t change his negative perspective. he basically told us that we
are "too charitable as missionaries" and that "everyone just wants
everything on a silver platter and we aren´t capable of doing that, so
stop trying with certain people." elder fernandes is determined on
getting a new president for our branch. he is going to tell president
tavares about everything.
sérgio was interviewed, but didn´t pass. we are working with him. i
think we will mark again for this weekend. lillian and her family are
very interested and i think we will try and mark their baptism this
weekend. lillian wants to be baptized and she has a testimony of the
church. i don´t know if the branch will help. they haven´t done jack
to help with the other converts and investigators.
alex is great. he wants to get baptized and jonathan was kinda iffy
about baptism but then alex talked with him and asked him if they
could get baptized on the same day and they both are psyched for it
now. we are gunna go to their houses tonight to ask authorization from
their parents. at least i hope so...
i don´t know why we are getting kicked out. i have an idea. but we
haven´t found another house or apartment. we have to find a house for
4 missionaries that is safe, in good condition, and is in centro (the
most expensive area to live) so that we have access to both areas. we
have to find this house for R$ 550, meaning like $280. the closest we
have found? R$700. and President told us to find another one. all the
other ones that we have looked at are above R$ 1,000. yeah. good luck.
elder van orden was elder yuma´s kid. he is kinda cocky, but we get
along alright. he is way young on the mission and tries to act like
the senior comp. he tries to act like he is the example that we need
to follow.
oh man i am jealous! HALLOWEEN! what should i be for halloween? we
thought about just being members of the church. meaning...take the
name tag off and like have a party or something. lol. halloween in
português is Dia das Bruxas. it isn´t an official holiday.
mom, about the christmas package...if there is space, you could send
syrup again. that was tasty. do you think you could send a good
cologne, too? because unlike Rio Grande do Sul, São Paulo and Paraná
are hot as heck. so could i get some cologne so that while i sweat my
eyes out this summer, i can smell good? lol
mom and lauren...thank you for the two trunkiest comments of the
month. haha now i am aware that in two months i will be talking with
you guys again...and that in 10 months i will be going home. thanks
for that last one especially, lauren! :P oh and lauren...keep being
the example. like you said, when people see the truth of the gospel
(espesically in our examples) they can´t forget that. just keep
helping your friends to see the blessings of the gospel through your
example. it is tough there because a lot of people are so numbed to
the gospel because they have been around it their whole lives, but
keep strong.
one last experience to share. last night, we were just walking down in
this park area talking with people and these two guys over by this
soccer court called us over to talk. when we went and explained some
stuff, a group had started to gather of like 6 or 7 guys. then when we
asked if we could share a message with them, they all got quiet (keep
in mind, this is a group of like 25 to 30-year-old guys playing
soccer). we started talking and people kept gethering around. by the
time i had finished teaching about prophets and the church of jesus
christ in primitive times, there was a group of 15 guys around us all
listening. when fernandes talked about the restoration, everyone was
quiet just listening. it was crazy. we now have 15 addresses of people
who asked us to go to their houses. lol crazy.
anyway that was my week. i am doin good and just workin. this is the
last week of the transfer. i hope everything is going good at home.
lauren...hold off on the christmas music...it is still october :) love
you guys and miss you guys a ton! have an awesome week!
tchau!
elder scott ghormley
Friday, October 22, 2010
Year Two, Letter Eight
updates on my old investigators from Marília:
Carol was the one I baptized. her parents, Renato and Cassia were
married and baptized! they are way strong.
Soraya was baptized the week after i left and is strong.
Junior and Marcele were baptized a week after I left.
Antônia and Fernanda were baptized.
I am so happy. They are all strong.
hey everyone. i gotta be quick today. we found out that we have been
kicked out of our apartment because...well we don´t know why. the guy
just doesn´t like us i guess. so we have to go and try and find
another house or apartment asap.
alright well it sounds like dad and mom should be the new mascot for
the energizer commercials. you guys just don´t stop. but I bet the
house is going to be AMAZING as always for the family reunion. i guess
i will send my RSVP right now...THANKS FOR THE INVITE!! But I won´t be
able to make it this year. Sounds like it will be really fun, but I
already have a previous commitment. But i am sorry that you guys had
to work a TON. you are pretty amazing examples.
it sounds like you guys are doing great with the new callings. That
lesson about a change of heart must have been great. it really is a
miracle to see how people´s hearts can change because of the gospel of
jesus christ. my favorite example lately is Hélio and Nalva. They have
a son named Diogines (say it like Jorgeness...good luck) and a
soon-to-be daughter-in-law that started hearing the missionaries a few
months ago. At first, Diogines was a rock. He didn´t like the
missionaries and every time he got home and saw them teaching his wife
(even though they asked permission), he just got pissed. But she
insisted and they insisted and he finally went to church and started
listening. Now, they are getting the marriage set up and they will be
married in the next few weeks and baptized. The best part is that now,
Diogines and his "wife," Marcele, are my really good friends and love
us, as well. So, Diogines wanted us to teach his parents. In the first
lesson, I felt the spirit so strong. Diogines bore his testimony and
his parents were so amazed at how he changed and they felt the spirit,
too. When we went back, they had prayed about what we said and Nalva
just said that she knew that what we had told her was true. Now the
crazy part. Hélio is the ex-hitman who lived in Pernambucu (i think
that is spelled right), but moved because people wanted to kill him.
He has smoked since he was 11. He never wanted to hear anything about
Christ or the Gospel. But now, he is listening. He is reading the Book
of Mormon. When we went there to teach him last week on his day off,
he said the closing prayer and started crying in the middle of the
prayer. When he finished, he looked at me and said, "Only you guys can
do this." And I just said, "No, it is the Gospel of Jesus Christ that
can do this. We are just here to let you know that." Now, he and Nalva
are wanting to get married before the end of the year so that they can
be baptized. And he has started trying to stop smoking. he has gone
from 2 or 3 packs a day to 2 or 3 cigarettes a day. yes, the church is
true.
I don´t understand why President Mario (our Branch President) doesn´t
support us. He was also interviewed by President Tavares this last
weekend and it looks like President Tavares was very firm with him.
But after the meetings on Sunday, we have pushed forward some ideas
and goals and he has committed to do everything he can to help us. We
had District Conference this last weekend with President and Sister
Tavares. They talked about what we need to do to be true disciples of
Christ and how the Book of Mormon is the keystone to our religion,
respectively. Great talks. We also had a Leadership Training after
lunch. The 3 branches in Presidente Prudente were supposed to have the
leaderships there. Everest Branch and Aviação Branch had about 15
people each. Planalto Branch (my branch) had Elder Ferandes, Me,
Presidente Mario, and the Branch Mission Leader. 4 people. Yeah, looks
like this branch is real psyched to get to work. But, we worked
together with President Tavares to make some goals. It looks like we
have potential.
Sérgio went to the conference. He liked it. He was interviewed on
saturday for baptism. Elder Loftus interviewed. The branch president
doesn´t have the keys. Sérgio didn´t pass. He has a couple things in
his past that caused some problems. President Tavares interviewed him
on Sunday after church and made some goals and Sérgio will be able to
be interviewed again on Friday or Saturday and baptized this next
weekend. He is still pretty strong. We will continue doing everything
to strengthen and prepare him.
Lillian is doing great. We are now teaching her little sister and her
boyfriend as well. She is bringing other people to church...and
President Mario just said she was a snake (that is what we call the
girls who just listen to the missionaries because they like them). But
when we taught the Law of Chastity, Lillian´s 12-year-old sister said
she wasn´t sure if she would be able to keep it. So sad. She is
12...and she has already done several things that I won´t even say.
But we were VERY, VERY direct with her and explained why she needed to
keep the Law of Chastity and she understood. I think she got a little
scared actually. But it was necessary. Lillian is 14 I think.
Alex and Jonathan are 16. And they are doing well. But we gotta try
and make them (Jonathan) understand and stop being lazy. I dunno. We
will see what potential is still there.
The new missionary is Elder Van Orden. He is cool. He is from St.
George, Utah. He was Elder Yuma´s comp. He plays golf. He is
dedicated. Thus and therefore, we are getting along quite well. I
think he thinks I am a little crazy. But that is just because he is
young on the mission. But he plays golf, so we are good.
My interview with President Tavares was...good. He told me that I
might be getting transferred at the next transfer. I think he is
unsure because he wants to see what i can do with this area with Elder
Fernandes, but at the same time, he said he might want me to get a new
start in another area. The Assistants were here a few weeks ago and it
turns out that they lied a ton about this area. One of them that was
teaching Alex with me said that Alex´s mom grabbed his butt. No, I am
not kidding. I was there the whole time and Alex´s mom didn´t even
like this kid and then in my interview, President was asking if that
was the truth. Oh, I got mad. I explained everything that happened and
it turns out that that was just one of the several lies that this
Assistant was telling. So President was kinda confused but said that
he believed me. I dunno.
I was studying in Preach My Gospel about how we need to learn to
recognize the whispers of the spirit. It was good. Something that
people don´t realize is that when we just look at the negative side of
everything, we can´t feel the spirit. i said that to President Mario.
we have to have the right attitude to feel him guiding us. we have to
seek him and always do our best to follow him. if we lose ourselves in
the world, we can´t follow the Spirit. I think that is why so many
people leave the church. they lose themselves in things that aren´t
really important. ya know?
mom, for the package, i think you know some good, cool things. last
year was spectacular. haha a few ties would be good. ummm i don´t
really know. you guys are the geniuses here. haha. pictures are always
good. what do you think would be a good idea?! toss some of your ideas
out there. i am good on like sunscreen and chapstick and repellent and
powders and stuff. i don´t need those. what would be some good ideas?
and i don´t know if we will have a mission conference again. maybe,
maybe not.
Alright well I think that is all for this week. I love you guys so
much. Thank you for everything you do for me. don´t forget to send
some christmas ideas. :)
tchau!
Elder Scott Ghormley
i forgot
Carol´s cousin, Bia, was also baptized :)
thasall
love you guys.
Friday, October 15, 2010
Year Two, Letter Seven
scripture: D&C 68: 2 - 6
umm so how are you all doing? it looks like you have been keeping
pretty busy. sorry that i am sending email so late. let me explain. we
received a phone call this morning from the Assistants. we were
informed that there would be an emergency transfer. one more. everyone
can take a deep breath...because i wasn´t involved in this transfer. i
am still in the same area with elder fernandes. but elder loftus and
almeida were split. almeida is going back to foz do iguaçu. so we were
busy getting everything packed up and going to the bus station with
him and such. so that is why this email is so late. now we have
another american getting here tomorrow.
so let´s get started.
FIRST ITEM OF IMPORTANCE! MEANING "VERY IMPORTANT:" P-DAY WAS CHANGED
AGAIN!!!!!! today is the last p-day that i will have on wednesday. As
of now, MONDAY is our P-DAY. it was changed BACK to monday. so! on
Sunday night, or early morning on monday, you need to send emails.
understood? P-DAY IS MONDAY. this monday will be the first, so you can
write on sunday night!
Jonathan was not baptized :( it is pretty difficult. but Alex and
Jonathan are ready. we did the pre-interview for both of them and they
are ready. Alex is stronger. the problem? we need to get permission
from their parents. so we will be working hard on that. but they are
really special. I feel like they are my younger brothers or something.
I feel like I need to help them to take these steps.
Sérgio is ready for baptism and chose this Saturday for his baptism
date. But, unfortunately, we aren´t COMPLETELY sure if he is keeping
the law of chastity with Sandra. it is just kinda an awkward question,
ya know? but we will be teaching them tonight.
Lillian is doing well, too. she is still working on keeping the law of
chastity, but she wants to go to be baptized, too. we are doing
everything we can to help, but it is delaying a little bit because
this last week was way busy.
Fernandes had a bit of a breakdown last night. We had a meeting with
the Branch President here and Fernandes wasn´t expecting such a
resolutely negative attitude from President Mario. Pres Mario
complained about every single investigator. We were explaining about
Alex and Jonathan and he just looked at us and was like, "You really
think any of these kids have a chance of being firm members?" in a
really rude way. Then with Lillian, he just laughed and said, "You
think that this girl is actually interested in the church? You sure
she isn´t just interested in one of you?" And with Sérgio, he just
goes, "There is no way that he is going to keep the Law of Chastity
with Sandra." I was used to it because Mario has never been supportive
of us in the time that I have been here. But Fernandes was SO ticked
and was almost crying from anger after the meeting. President Tavares
said that this area is going to close if we can´t get the attendance
at church to increase. It is at an average of about 50 or 55 people.
We have interviews with President on Saturday. I think he is going to
talk A LOT with me about the area and what i think the potential is. I
am praying to know what to say and what to do. I know this area and
our investigators have potential, but without the support of the
Branch, there is not much i can do for these people. everyone is just
so dispirited and disheartened. I don´t know how to get them excited.
We have a new curriculum for our teaching methods. we are changing the
way we teach and the way we help the people on their way to
conversion. it is a much more simplified method and it has been quite
good in the lessons that i have taught so far. how are the church
callings going? it was kinda weird the first time that i taught Gospel
Essentials. I wasn´t prepared or anything, but we were able to get an
awesome lesson. i guess Heavenly Father was like, "Oh wow...he is
going to make a fool of himself. Holy Ghost...help him, please..." Oh
yeah, I had a great experience this last Sunday. I got to church and
was informed that i was to give a 10 minute talk about missionary
work. zero preparation. how cool, huh? i talked about President
Brigham Young´s quote in chapter 1 of Preach My Gospel. apparently, it
was a very good talk. I didn´t seem to follow all my plans. I ended up
talking about that quote and how the Christ-like attributes are
essencial to do missionary work as members and such. it was a great
talk. and i actually passed on my time limit. how cool, right?
You guys work so much. But i am so glad for the example you guys have
given me. It is because of you guys that i can work hard here. because
you guys taught me. the family reunion seems like it will be...a
BLAST! but the house will be amazing as always.
I hope Wendy is able to cope with the changes that naturally happen in
our lives. I hope she can find comfort in the gospel.
That is awesome that the Cardinals won with Max Hall starting. talk
about tight. I love my weekly sports updates. I feel really involved
in the sport world. lol.
Um other little things...
In whatever package happens to be sent to me, can it have a tie clip
in it? like a cool tie clip that prevents my tie from flying around
and hitting people´s faces (by "people´s faces," i mean my face) when
the spring breezes blow all over the place. but a cool tie clip would
be splendid.
anyway. so DON`T FORGET! P-DAY IS MONDAY NOW. i guess that is all for now...
I LOVE YOU GUYS! Morgan...people might have thought i was weird for
looking at pictures of a naked baby, but thank you for the pictures of
my nephew :) i hope work is going better for you and that you can get
back into the swing of things. :)
that is all for now. until MONDAY! i love you guys and i hope you all
have a splendid week!!!
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
Year Two, Letter Six
hey everyone!
so this week has been different. Like I said, fernandes was gone for
the conference, so we didn´t get to work in my area too often.
unfortunately, that means some things have changed. for example, i
have NO CLUE whatsoever where José Roberto is. I have called and gone
to his house repeatedly, and the guy isn´t ever there. Ever. I don´t
know what I can do for him. I wonder if his break-up with Rosa (the
member he was dating) has been an element in the things that have been
going on. i am not sure if he wants to be baptized or if he was trying
to do something to show Rosa that he changed or something like that.
the guy just disppeared.
Conference was AMAZING. as always. but i am pretty sure that is the
first time in like 8 years that i didn´t watch the priesthood
session...odd. i really wish i had been there, but apparently watching
the prophet and apostles speak directly to the priesthood holders of
the church isn´t a good enough reason to show up a tiny bit later in
the house. but the talks were amazing. i watched the saturday and
sunday sessions. all 4. it was so bomb. the only things missing??
WAFFLES. BACON AND EGGS. OUR FAMILY ROOM. lol but elder loftus and i
were able to work some magic and watch in english again :) i feel
pretty special. i felt the spirit incredibly strong. i feel like the
bigger topics that i was able to pick up were: the importance of our
PERSONAL testimony of the truth (kinda like what you were telling me
in your email mom); the importance of a testimony of the prophets in
our days; and the importance of fortifying the family from the
darkness of the world. it was a great experience.
Lillian and Jennifer went to the conference. They liked it a lot...and
then the member of the Young Women Presidency started talking about
modesty and morality and they felt really awkward. they aren´t exactly
practicing either. Lillian is much more mature and has a bigger desire
to follow the gospel. When we taught the Word of Wisdom and the Law of
Chastity, she was willing to try her best. The other people we were
teaching (including Jennifer) said that it will be too hard. Their
goal? they are going to try and reduce the sexual relationships to
once every 5 days. yes, that is serious. I can wait while you read it
again...
Sergio also went to conference. He loved it. He doesn´t feel prepared
to be baptized yet, and he won´t be in the city this week. But we are
going to work super hard to help him get there soon. He has potential.
He just has to see it.
Alex and "Light" (Jonathan) are doing good. They are progressing. The
Assistants got to our area yesterday. They are here to...I really
don´t know what they are here for. But they worked with us last night.
I went with Elder Galdino. He was with me in Marília. He is tight. So
we already work very well together. We taught Light about baptism and
he wasn´t sure because he was baptized already in the Catholic church.
But we taught a bomb lesson and he said that he will prepare himself
to be interviewed this saturday. He said that if he does well in the
baptismal interview and if he feels good about it, he will be baptized
on saturday. we´ll see. Alex can´t be baptized yet. We are working
with him. But he is awesome. He is reading the Book of Mormon and
praying sincerely. And he and his family love us. Well...me. Because
the first time I went there was with Miller. Then he left and I went
there with Almeida and Loftus. And they don´t work in this area. Then
i went there with Galdino. So they just see me with a bunch of other
missionaries. So they already think i will stay here forever. But we
are working with these two.
We received new material from the first presidency for missionary
work. it is the new curriculum (spelling?) for missionaries. We have
new focuses. We have several things to change and put into practice
and then we will have to report on the changes in the mission and in
our work. it is pretty good. i will be giving a training tomorrow
about the importance of prayer with our investigators. it should be
cool.
THAT IS SICK THAT THE MORMONS BEAT THE CATHOLIC PRIESTS! I am kinda
psyched about that. Is it wrong if i use that as one more testimony
that the church is true? i bet so. blasphemous. but parabéns para
vocês! and i didn´t know that we lost the ryder cup. people don´t
mention golf down here as you can imagine.
as for my comp? he is odd. and he focuses way too much on numbers. but
i am not gunna let him get to me. if i have learned one thing on the
mish, it is that you just need to work and forget about the annoying
stuff. and now i have learned that "tronky" is, in fact, spelled
"trunky." desculpe aí, mom. blake, you can laugh at that. haha :)
the rain here was nuts. i can´t remember when it started. it went for
a while. all i know is that it stopped on monday. imagine how
difficult it was to dry clothes!
morgan and stuart, i am really happy that stuart was able to get that
job! but what do you mean "rock" handshake? stuart can´t possibly have
one of those :) and i hope you can get back on track with work, too,
moe.
dad...i hope that you are able to handle the schedule changes with
your new calling. I just think of it this way...God called you. He
knows you are capable just like I know you are capable. You are the
right person for the calling. God will bless you. I think it is far
easier to say this when you aren´t involved in the situation. haha
mom...what do you mean you will have to bronze our shoes? lol OH! The
package info. Alright so if it is above 50 dollars, it gets taxed. and
i didn´t want a buzzer like the one to actually cut hair. just the one
that blake got with the various attatchments AFTER his mission. I
don´t want to shave my head. it was more for the little maintenance on
sideburns and at the back and stuff. not to actually shave my head
lol. for Christmas?! dang. that is a crazy thought. um my socks are
holding up very well actually. crazy. shirts? no, i will just keep on
with the ones i am using. I saved 3 short-sleeved shirts until my one
year mark. so i think i am good. my shoes? yikes. they have been
through a lot. but i am going to keep going with these shoes. i don´t
know. what were you thinking of sending? just to give me some ideas.
lol.
alright well i am good. other than my elbow which i just hit on the
desk directly on the funny bone. and holy crap, it ISN`T funny.
whoever gave it that name needs to be swiftly kicked in the rear end.
but i am good. and healthy. and just going. i love you all a ton and
never get sick of letting you know that. i miss you all and hope that
you guys have a splendid week. :)
till next week. tchau!
elder scott ghormley
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Year Two, Letter Five
sorry for the delay! we started using email and then we had to leave because the lan house decided that it would stop working and all the computers went out. but let´s go.
alright so this week was difficult, but productive in some ways.
it has been raining nonstop since friday night/saturday morning. so that was kinda annoying. we had a bunch of people ready to go to church, and they didn´t go because of the rain. i can´t handle that excuse. but we had a couple girls - Lillian and Jennifer - that went with us. that was cool. Lillian is a great investigator. She has some great questions and she is a lot more mature.
elder fernandes is a lot different. we don´t laugh nearly as much as miller and i. actually, we rarely laugh. ummm we had a conversation a few nights ago that really hit me the wrong way.
he flat out told me that he is a missionary that just worries about numbers. whether or not a person stays strong in the church isn´t his priority. he just wants to have a ton of numbers and that is the only concern he has. he wants to baptize anyone...whether or not they are ready to be baptized. so i kinda burned him a little bit...not too harshly or anything. but i will NOT be a numbers missionary. that isn´t me.
but fernandes is currently in Marília for a conference so i am just staying with elders loftus and almeida. we are going to have so much work to do with our investigators when he gets back. josé roberto is still doing well and sérgio, but they have zero support from the branch here. the branch president was trying to tell us what we were allowed to do and stuff and i basically just said that we have the priesthood keys to teach and baptize the people and that the branch was responsible for retaining the people. he doesn´t like missionaries because of certain missionaries that came through here.
but whatever. we just work...and work...and work. and that is what we gotta do. if people don´t like us, that is their problem. we have some good people that we are teaching, but i hope that they will still be interested after a delay of not teaching them. that is the problem with not being able to go there and teach frequently...the enemy is always working. just pray that our investigators will stay interested!
ummmm what other updates do i have...
congratulations on the successful baptism!!! scott springer will be forever grateful for the love and help that you are giving him. and his family, as well, will never forget it.
i am SO excited for conference. I am psyched. but we won´t be allowed to watch the priesthood session. there is the 9:00 to 11:00 transmission on saturday night, so we can´t watch. and then the re-transmission is at 6:00 AM on sunday, so we can´t watch that one either. but i will watch the other sessions...i hope.
the office looks AMAZING! you guys did an amazing job.
i hope Wendy is doing okay. is Bob still alive? is he in the hospital still? that is a really rough situation. i hope she is okay.
my nephew looks excellent. is his cold better? i wonder if his cheeks can get any bigger? do you think it is possible? i bet i was chubbier than him when i was a baby!
i hope that sports start getting more interesting. hey dad, i hope you beat everyone in the catholic golf tournament again. that would be excellent.
ummm i was thinking...if it would be possible to send a package soonish, i have a few requests. good, quality toothbrushes because a quality toothbrush here is way expensive. i hate import taxes. and then one of those buzzers that blake got after the mission with the various attachments. that would be splendid if it were possible.
alright well i saved my big time trunky comment until the very end.
here it goes....
you guys will never again receive an email from me as a missionary in the month of september. ever.
i was going to say this at the end of august...but i don´t know if i will still be here in august or not. i might have to come home early for school and i haven´t really thought a lot about that, so i don´t know what will happen there. so i decided that i would say it at the end of september :) don´t get too trunky!!
i love you guys and i hope that you guys avoid the cold :) keep being awesome like always. i miss you guys and love you guys :) untillll next week. peace. tchau
elder scott ghormley
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Year Two, Letter Four
maybe you guys are getting as sick of this as i am....but more changes. this last transfer ended on sunday, and once again, i don´t even have time to get used to a comp. elder miller was transferred. i am going on to my 10th companion now. everyone says that our mission is really weird about transfers. rather than stay with a comp for a couple transfers, the president just makes a ton of changes. a few returned missionaries in our district just said that when they were on their missions, they would stay for at least a couple transfers with the same comp in the same area. it just doesn´t make a lot of sense...i mean you barely have time to get used to one form of teaching with one comp, and then when you can actually start working on improving and mastering, you have to get a different comp. elder miller and i were way good friends and this transfer flew by so dang quick...but now i have to get one more comp...
his name is elder fernandes. he is from Amapá and he is 25. he was elder yuma´s comp. yuma told me a lot of stories about their time as comps. from what i have heard, he is quite immature and he complains about like...everything. but i better not judge. i gotta give the kid a chance. i really just want to have a fun transfer and work. i guess i gotta just trust in God as always.
ummm i wish i was there to see my nephew. i am glad you are recovering morgan. i am sure you are gunna be an awesome mom :) and when he gets all fussy and stuff, just remember...umm...it will only last for a few years? just keep truckin :)
it sounds like this Scott Springer guy is pretty cool. So his whole family are members, but he wasn´t baptized yet? that is great that he is finally making that choice. how are you two (Dad and Mom) liking the mission callings?? are the two sisters for our entire stake? or just our ward? we don´t have any help whatsoever for our missionary work. our ward mission leader hasn´t showed up for the last 2 weeks for our meeting and when i talk to him about it he just whines and complains that he is too busy. but i guess we gotta just keep fighting and teaching the people here. when it comes down to it, the most important thing we can do is teach people about Christ. i guess we gotta just endure and be happy in our moments of difficulty so that we can grow and become stronger. i wish i was working with you guys and our ward´s mission crew haha. who teaches the gospel principles class?
as for our investigators:
José Roberto: he didn´t get baptized. i guess he was too busy this last week and never had time to remember the 3 appointments that we had with him. but he wants to get baptized this saturday. the problem?
we have to allow some time to make sure he won´t fall back into old habits. but he broke up with rosa (the member from our branch) and she was way pissed because of that. so i don´t know how this will work out in our branch....
Sérgio: this is Sandra´s boyfriend. she is also a member. they aren´t living together. but we still had to be careful teaching the law of chastity. he has gone to church several times and i believe that i will have to set up an appointment with him tonight or tomorrow and i think we will challenge him to be baptized next saturday. he lives outside city limits, so it is tough to teach him. but he is a very quiet, chill guy.
Cambucí Crew: Jonathan (Light), Alex, and Leandro didn´t go to church.
the first two have more potential. we gotta get them to keep going to church and we gotta get them to build some friendship in the branch...with all of the members that are so eager to...not help.but we have some cool young men here who will help us out. I don´t know how well elder fernandes will mesh with them though. me and elder miller just fit together and worked really well together and they thought we were really cool missionaries but, more importantly, friends. but fernandes seems a little timid...or nerdy. lol. but he is my new comp. i gotta learn to love him. maybe he has a special something that these kids need to
see or learn and that is why he is here?
Hélio and Nalva: They still need to get married. And they need to keep the word of wisdom. And we just received some crazy info...Hélio had an interesting job choice about 14 years ago. A job choice that forced him to leave the state where he used to live for fear of death. He used to be a hitman. SO ummm....we have got a LONG road before their baptism. president tavares will have to approve an interview and he will have to do it personally. but that is a ways away.
Roberta´s Family: we will see what to do there. they didn´t go to church.
so now we will have to see.
Now, we just have to start working more and more to find new investigators and such. i am gunna have to take control and get our references organized and just start doing what i was doing in Marília.
And we are gunna have to pray a lot.
did you guys finish the office? is it cool?
hey blake...what is the email address that you are sending your letters to? because i don´t know if i am getting all of them that you are sending.
everyone can go on a scripture hunt this week. read matthew 5:48 and then read 3 Nephi 12:48 and 27:27 and tell me how that is another testimony that the book of mormon is true. you can look at the example of Christ´s baptism in Matthew as well and compare it to 2 Nephi 31: 3
- 9 to get a hint. whoever gets it right will win a high five via internet.
so i guess that is all i have for interesting stuff. ummm thanks everyone for your support. i know i don´t say it enough...but you guys are so important to me. thank you for everything and for your examples. i love you guys! keep seeking a deeper, more important relationship with Christ in your lives. till next week. TCHAUZÃO!
elder scott ghormley
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Year Two, Letter Three
I am an uncle!!!!!!!! And yes, i know that you all received new
titles, as well. soooo congratulations to you guys, too. BUT I AM AN
UNCLE!!! i feel pretty left out right about now. butttt
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!! jackson scott...9 lbs and 13 oz!! how
tight. sorry big guy, but i was still bigger (you can show him this
email when he learns to read). but that is great that morgan still
loves her first child. i mean it might have hurt a tid bit, but it was
worth it, right? lol but seriously...congrats. i am so happy that he
came early. now moe doesn´t have suffer so much :) i loved the
pictures. every one seems to have these really surprised faces like,
"hey...so you are the reason that morgan has been hurting so much
lately." i am way happy for you guys. it is gunna be pretty exciting
to be PARENTS!!!! and more exciting to be an uncle. because i won´t be
changing the diapers ;)
soooo um we got some more good news for this week. Jonathan "Light"
went to church again this last sunday and we brought one of his
friends, Alex. butttt even though they are liking everything, one of
their friends is definitely getting in the way. Leandro (who we were
teaching, as well) was causing some problems and saying that Jonathan
shouldn´t be baptized. definitely annoying. so we are just focusing on
getting him to read the book of mormon and pray so that he doesn´t
need to have any doubts. there is a lot of work ahead, but we
are...working on it.
we are also getting Roberto prepared for baptism. it could be this
saturday, but it isn´t for sure. it might delay a little more. we will
see. Hélio and Nalva are great. Hélio has to travel a lot for work
though. and now he stays outside the city for like 5 days straight.
and then comes back for only one day. so it is tough. they gotta get
married, too :(
ummmm we are also teaching a girl and her cousin. their names are
Graziele and Barbara. they went to church and loved it. but then some
lady from another branch starting asking a bunch of questions about
where they live and was like, "Hey, you live in our branch boundaries,
so you have to come with me right now to the other church." So
Graziele and Barbara got all upset because they already liked all the
girls in young women and relief society and they were really friendly,
so they didn´t wanna leave. they live right on our boundary lines as
missionaries, so it doesn´t matter about the branch boundaries to us.
we just wanna help them follow the gospel, but everyone else just
freaks out about location and numbers in their chapels and stuff. they
need to worry about helping these two girls like the church and
understand it. but no. they just complain. way stupid. but they are
way cool.
we also have this lady in our ward named Roberta. she is SO tight. she
took us to visit two of her aunts and one of her nieces yesterday and
they all wanna be baptized, they just have to make some changes in
their lives. it was crazy though, because roberta said that these
family members have had so many opportunities and the missionaries
have already tried to teach, but her family didn´t want anything to do
with anything. now, they are listening to us and they wanna start
following the gospel. she said that it is a miracle because she
doesn´t know why this sudden change happened. maybe that is just one
more reason that i am here. maybe it was because of this moment as
well? i dunno. but we will get working on it.
ummmm we played soccer this morning. i am actually getting lots
better. but my right shin hurts. but it was fun. i need to get a
little more practice in. and when we play, we play with guys our age
or right around that age. the neighborhood soccer team that we are
teaching (we call them the Cambucí Crew) are all between 16 and 22. it
is really fun to play with them. we set up a game with them today. we
are gunna play soccer, get some pizza, and then teach them all. the
group is: Jonathan (Light), Raphael, Leandro, Alex, Vinicius (deaf and
mute), and the occasional random friend of theirs. It is gunna be fun.
but we can only play with them on p-day, or at the friday night church
activity if they go, or randomly for a couple minutes in the street
haha
sooooo i don´t know what else i have to say. nothing as exciting as,
"I AM AN UNCLE!" yeah, it still has a cool sound to it. thanks for
giving me this opportunity morgan and stuart. :) ummmm things are
good. i am healthy. me and elder miller are still tight. is it weird
if i feel like Brazil is my home? i mean obviously it isn´t my REAL
home. but it feels like my home. it is hard for me to imagine what my
life would be like if i weren´t a missionary. sorry. i am just
rambling now. i love you guys!!!! i miss you a ton (including
little...or big...Jackson Scott). morgan...keep recovering. :)
love you all and tchau!!
elder scott ghormley
P.S. Dad! how is the new calling going?? i bet you are a kick butt LMA
(líder da missão da ala) WARD MISSION LEADER! ours doesn´t help at
all. he got back from the mish a while ago and he just focuses on
girls. literally. and he has a strange giggle. but let me know how
things are going with the calling!!!
